The Japanese ‘Shibari’ s** trend has soared in popularity – but experts warn that the kink could be dangerous.
The ‘Shibari’ bedroom trend originated in Japan, and is popular within the kink community.
It’s thought that the act came from hojo-jutsu, which is a known method of restraining captives and a form of torture.
But since the early days of its use, ‘Shibari’ has evolved into a s**xual act.
However, experts are warning that if not done correctly, the s** act could pose major risks.
It has been said that those who aren’t completely confident in what they’re doing could end up hurting their partner.
‘Shibari’ typically involves couples tying each other up, with thin and colourful ropes using intricate, tiny knots.
It’s a form of bondage, with the aim of restricting mobility.
But what are the main risks?
Nerve damage
The most common form of nerve damage that can occur during the act is in the peripheral nerve, particularly the radial, axillary, and femoral nerves.
This often occurs due to ‘prolonged compression, excessive force, and/or repetitive strain on nerve.’
Symptoms of such include tingling sensations, shooting pains, numbness and weakness, or difficulty moving in the area that is affected.
The academy suggests that the best way to avoid this is to always have ‘constant and honest communication’ during the act.
They also recommend having ‘safety sheers’ near by, in case of an emergency where cutting the rope is deemed necessary.
The advice from the academy is: “Don’t perform ties you are not ready for. Shibari is not a race and there is nobody you need to impress.
“Start with simple ties and slowly work your way towards more complex ties.
“Take the time to understand how the ropes work and how the body responds to them.”
Circulation loss
If a rope is tied too tightly, there is a risk that your partner’s blood flow could be restricted.
They suggest: “It’s important to note that [circulation loss] can conceal nerve injuries.
“As a precautionary measure, ensure that the person being tied does not stay in the same position with the same tie for more than 30 minutes.”
Asphyxiation
One of the more serious risks is asphyxiation, which is the state or process of being deprived of oxygen, which can result in unconsciousness or, in more severe cases, death.
According to the academy, loss of consciousness is more common during inverted or suspended positions, which is why full-body suspension should be left to experts.
Rope burn
Experts suggest this is a far more common risk, particularly for those trying out the act for the first time.
Irritation and burns typically appear as reddened, swollen and blistering marks on the skin, which could be caused by tying ropes too tightly, or not taking care when tying knots.
The academy suggests: “When drawing a lengthy section of rope across your partner’s skin, use your fingers as a shield to reduce direct contact and protect against burns.”
They added: “Opt for high-quality rope materials specifically designed for Shibari. and avoid untreated or climbing ropes.”