I stumbled across an intriguing article the other day.
“It baffles me that women over forty choose to become mothers.” What are their thoughts on it, and why do they require it?
They already have children, and their adult children will be aware of their parents’ adulterous activities. Why don’t they consider how their peers and parents will mock them? Will the child attend first grade with his grandmother? Their infant would later be terribly embarrassed!
What’s most fascinating is how widespread this way of thinking is. Here’s another example of such a concept.
Do women over the age of forty fail to recognize that childbearing is no longer a possibility for them? My husband and I both lost our parents while we were young, and our children have never met their grandparents. His superiors informed him that the death certificate he had brought to work was in fact that of his grandmother. When they have a child at this age, parents, in my opinion, willfully wreck their life.
Such an opinion might be classified as ambiguous. On the one hand, it looks that everyone who opposes late births is accurate. But, in the end, they were born into this world, and their parents loved and cared for them. And what if they decide to terminate their child? If this is the case, does this imply that they will cease to exist?
One day, I had an unusual encounter.
I had a classmate with whom I got along well. She was a wonderful person. This girl had previously transferred to our school in the eleventh grade. She was the eldest child in the family. Her mother was one of those elderly women who held off having a kid until they were far older; she gave birth at the age of 37. Furthermore, after turning forty, the girl’s mother gave birth to a younger brother at the age of 41. This family deviated from the norm because the majority of the ladies in our class had their first child at the age of nineteen.
My friend’s mother was a cheerful person who adored everyone around her. She was incredibly kind and patient. She struck me as a very remarkable woman. And, to be honest, the best person I know.
She spent a lot of time talking to her kids and their friends. She was always eager to help us. She always scheduled get-togethers and refreshments for us when our moms rested after work and didn’t have the energy to spend with their children. That was the fundamental distinction.
And why should children feel ashamed of such a mother? We, on the other hand, were all really and respectfully envious of them since they had the most lovely mother on the earth. Furthermore, none of us would dare to call her an elderly woman. Her age was unimportant to us since she made everyone feel so fantastic.
At nineteen, I was confident that a lady forty years old was an ancient woman. But now that I’m forty, I see how silly I was at the time. And with a lot of affection, too. I believed that because I was impressionable at the time, but I’ve now outgrown my formative years.
Now, I’m certain that a woman’s financial status influences when she gives birth more than her age. A woman should wait to have children until she is emotionally and financially prepared.