Every Mother’s Day, I felt overlooked, despite making Father’s Day special for my husband. This year, he promised something different. “I’ve got something big planned,” he said. The weekend began with a “Mother’s Day bonfire,” but it turned into a neighborhood gathering, not my celebration.
Mid-event, my husband claimed his boss needed him for an urgent surgery. Left alone, I managed the party. The next morning, his boss called, revealing my husband had actually hosted another party without me. Furious, I threw away his Father’s Day gifts, symbolizing my feeling of being discarded.
When he found the trashed gifts, he asked, “Why would you throw these away?” I replied, “They were for Father’s Day, but after what happened, I don’t see why I should celebrate you when you couldn’t celebrate me.”
Determined to teach him a lesson, I planned a Father’s Day surprise, inviting neighborhood kids and leaving him to manage alone. Returning to find him overwhelmed, I declared my contemplation of divorce. His realization of his neglect marked a turning point in our strained relationship. Something had to change.